Diane from Nazareth, Pennsylvania would like to help her two friends rebuild their marriage together, but she just doesn’t know where to start. So Diane called in to our radio program to get some ideas.

In this short video clip, I share with Diane some of the major ways in which marriages can start to go wrong:

• score-keeping and trying to win
• not identifying the real enemy in a conflict
• hanging onto resentment and not forgiving
• allowing the fear of “what if?” to take hold

I hope this short video might serve as a starting point in the journey to improve your marriage, or the marriage of someone you might know. And if you’d like more on this topic, we encourage you to get a copy of The Hurt & The Healer, a book that addresses these issues in more depth.