Did God choose us, or did we choose Him, or is it both? I struggle with how my relatives celebrate Christmas and wonder how I can break free from this bitterness. Can you help me? How can Hell be a justified punishment for those who don’t believe? And what does it mean that God judges the living and the dead?

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