“Old Testament violence? Natural disasters?”

How would you help a believer who is involved in sexual immorality? Do we see God immediately when we die or do we have to wait? How is God always the same but then the Old Testament is filled with such violence? Does God bring disaster upon us? I feel so condemned because of my failed marriage and my past. What can I do?

Tags: accusation, condemnation, death, divorce, failures, forgiveness, Heaven, natural disasters, New Testament, Old Testament, past, righteousness, sexual immorality, violence